Getting married and pursuing your career, both are equally important nowadays to survive in Pakistani society but I would say, even if the girl is not married, she should definitely pursue her career to develop herself. There are several pieces of evidence that support my stance and by the end of the article, you will agree with my stance.
Economic Crisis of Pakistan:
Pakistan is facing economic crisis and you would be thinking of that why am I discussing it over here? This is because females make around 49% of the population in Pakistan and where 49% of the population does not work how would that country develop? These rising inflation rates and high-interest rates are because only half of the other half is working to stabilize the economy of Pakistan. Yes, half of the other half, excluding the old citizens and our busy youth on social sites.
Name any developed nation and you will find females pursuing their career. So, what is your excuse to not support Pakistan in its critical situation?
Marriage Is Not a Certificate To a Happy Life:
Thanks to the negative influence of media, people are busy to conspire against each other. What are the topics of our discussion? Look! What is she wearing? She is intimating my style, and she does not cook food, etc. There is a list of topics in which we are targeting each other. The practice continues after marriage too and we bravely target our new relations.
Is this the aim of your life to just talking about everybody else? So, girls get a life and move out of that world of conspiracies. Spend your time in a productive way and earn by investing your time. Most probably, you would not get anything with these conspiracies but you will definitely get a handsome amount of money while pursuing your job. Should I need to tell where you can spend that amount? Obviously, you already have a lot of ideas for that.
Be a Helping Hand:
Apart from the above reasons, you will be able to help your family, either you get married or stay happily single. The world is changing its dynamics and the wants of the people are changing with it. It is difficult for one person to earn and fulfill the needs of the whole family. Therefore, you can play a vital role here.
Rising Divorce Rates:
Let’s talk about the sad reality of our society. The divorce rates are increasing day-by-day. Even if the husband does not divorce her wife, he keeps on discriminating against the fact that he can do so. The women of our society are not much aware of their rights and they have no other option than to get adjusted to an unfair environment. Here, if you have a job, you do not need to surrender to unfair conditions. You can take a stand for your own self. So, be kind to yourself and pursue your career for your own self.
Life is all about personal development. The job gives the confidence to the earner and helps to develop problem-solving ability. The working person has to deal with some daily challenges and these challenges help the individual to grow. Apart from this, there are several organizational pieces of training that encourage the workers to build up their skills. As a result, you will be a better person with every passing day at your working place.
Personal development is important for us, as we need to prepare the next generation too. It is rightly said that an educated mother develops an educated and civilized nation.
I am not saying that you should not get married but pursuing a career is far more important, according to the current situation of Pakistan. Pairs are made in heaven and definitely, there is someone for you too but do not waste your time searching that right man. He will come to you at the right time and you will get married to your Lord’s plan. At this time, stay focused on your career!
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